Asking for help

Learning to drive is a major milestone, and while professional driving lessons are essential for understanding the rules of the road and building a solid foundation, practice outside of those lessons plays a huge role in becoming a confident and safe driver. Driving is a skill that improves with repetition. The more time you spend behind the wheel, the more natural things like steering, checking mirrors, and judging distances become. This kind of muscle memory and instinct can only be developed through regular practice in real-world driving situations.

Asking your parents, friends or family members to help you practice between professional lessons can make a big difference. These extra sessions give you a chance to apply what you've learned with your instructor in a more relaxed environment. It’s also a great opportunity to get used to driving in different areas and conditions, such as at night, in bad weather, or on unfamiliar roads. The more variety you experience while learning, the better prepared you’ll be for driving independently.

Driving with someone you trust can also boost your confidence. You’re likely to feel more comfortable asking questions or taking your time, especially in situations that might feel overwhelming. Just be sure that whoever helps you is patient, calm and focused on safety, so you get the most out of your practice. With consistent effort and support from both your instructor and your loved ones, you'll gain the skills and confidence needed to pass your test and become a responsible driver for life.

Helping Your Child Learn to Drive: Why Your Support Matters More Than You Think

• Learning to drive is a big step in your child’s journey to independence, and while professional driving instructors play a key role, your involvement as a parent can make an enormous difference.

  
  

• Driving isn’t just about passing a test — it’s about becoming a confident, safe, and responsible road user. That’s where you come in. With your guidance and encouragement, your child can get the extra practice they need to grow into a skilled and mindful driver.

  
  

• One of the most important things you can offer is your time. Professional lessons are often limited to an hour or two per week, which means there’s a lot of room between those sessions for things to be forgotten or for nerves to build up. By taking your child out for additional practice, even just once or twice a week, you give them a chance to reinforce what they’ve learned and experience a wider variety of driving situations — from quiet residential streets to busy roundabouts, and different weather conditions too.

  
  

• Your presence also provides a level of comfort and reassurance that a learner driver truly values. Sitting beside someone they trust helps reduce anxiety and build confidence. However, it’s important to approach these practice sessions with patience and a calm attitude. Remember, they’re still learning — mistakes will happen. Stay positive, give clear guidance and praise their progress, no matter how small it may seem.

  
  

• Finally, by supporting your child in this process, you’re not just helping them pass a test — you’re shaping the way they approach driving for years to come. Your attitude toward safe driving, staying calm under pressure and being respectful on the road sets an example they’ll carry forward. So, if your child is learning to drive, consider being part of that journey. Your support, encouragement, and time could be one of the most valuable lessons they receive.